大学英语作文关于不同年代的男女关系

Inthemodernage,menandwomenhavemanydifferences.Andmanyof

theirbehaviorperformanceisnotthesame,forexampleintheexpressionsof

love,dealingwithquestions,thelanguagecommunicationabilityandsoon

way

Firstly,

Menfeeltheyarelovedwhenneeded,butforwomen,theyfeel

thatwhencherished.Sinceman’ssenseofselfisdefinedthroughhissuccess

andaccomplishment,theyexpresstheirlovebygivingpresents.Thelevelsof

lovearepro

portionaltothepresents’values.Incontrast,awoman’ssenseof

selfisdefinedthroughherfeelingsandthequalityofherrelationships.They

expresstheirlovebysharingandtheyempathizeontheiremotions.Ifmenand

women

do

not

understand

each

other,

arguments

may

be

resulted.

For

example,awomanlikestosharewithherhusbandwhensheisupsetandshe

thinksitisawaytoexpressherlove.However,ifamanmisinterpretedandso

heempathizesongivingsolutionsorchangeherviewduetothehopetobe

‘useful’and‘needed’,despitethehardworkinvolved,hewillbeupsetbythe

negativeresponsefromher.Therearemanyexamplesinthisbooktoexplain

thispoint.Atthismoment,menshouldlistenpatientlytolethispartnerknow

sheisbeingcaredandloved.

Secondly,Becauseofdifferentselfdefinitions,menliketosolveproblems

alonebutwomenareopposite.Mendonotlikeunsolicitedadvicefromothers

sincetheythinktheymustbe‘useful’.However,womenthinkthatsharingtheir

problemscansolvetheproblems,sotheyarestrangeabouttherejectionof

adviceformen.Forexample,ifamangetslost,hedoesnotwanthispartnerto

givehimadvice,buthewantstodohisbesttoachievethegoal.Thisgiveshim

sense

of

achievement.

In

this

book,

the

author

empathizes

on

this

point

in

variouschapters.Itisoneofthemostimportantpointsinmaintainingagood

relationshipbetweenbothsexes.

Thelastbutnotleast,Tofullyexpresstheirfeelings,womenassumepoetic