爱情与婚姻的英文演讲稿

　　LOVEandMARRIAGE

　　Helloeverybody,maybeitistooearlyforustotalkaboutmarriage,butwestillhavetherighttoputupouropinionsaboutloveandmarriage.

　　Peopleoftensaythatthereisnoreasontolovesomeone，butIwanttoaskallofyouaquestion:excepttheloveofparentsforchild,everyonehere,whocanloveapersonfornothingOrareyouwillingtolovesomeoneevenifyouwillgetnothingOfcauseyouwon’t.Sotheloveisconditioned，maybeyoudon’twanttogetanythingfromthepersonyoulove,butyoudesirehisorherlove,doyouthinksoSothisisthepremiseoflove.Soallofusarebeinglovedpurposefullybyothersandlovingotherspurposefully.

　　Sincethereisnoorlesslovewithoutpurpose,wecan’texpecttherewillbeanyonetoloveusfornothing.Butwecanmakeourselvespossessiontheadvantagesifwewanttobelovedbytheotherorifwewanttoloveothersbetter.Andalsoatthesametime,ifyoulovesomeone,justforgetsomeofyourpurpose.Goodlovelikesthefeelingofwalkingingrassland;itmakesyourworldsowildandsobright.Badlovelikeawell,itcanonlymakeyourworldmoreandnarrower.Goodloveisthatyoucanseetheworldthroughsomeone;badloveisthatyouwillmisstheworldforoneperson.

　　Thetrueloveisthatnomatterhowmuchdifferenceyouhaveandnomatterhowmanytemptaroundyouandnomatterhowtheworldoutsidechanges,youjustkeepgoingwiththepersonyouloveandyouwillneverthinkofbreakingupwitheachotherandyouwillbecomebraverandstrongerwithhimorher.

　　Haveyoueverexperiencedone’spromisinganddidthepromisecometrueTherearesomanythingswethoughtwewouldlovethemforever,buttheforeverpromisewasmadeatthetimewhenyouhavethestrongesthopetoholdthem.Soweshouldlearntotakepromiseasalittlepartoflove.Ifyougetitorifitcometrue,youwillbehappy,andifyoulostitorifitfailed,youwillbesadandthenyouwilllearnsomethingfromit,justdon’ttrytoaskthereasonwhythepromisedidbroken.

　　Somaybemarriageisthebestkindofformofpromiseforwomen,butmostofmenthinkthatmarriageisthetombofloveandmarriagehasnorelationshipwithlove,butinmyopinion,ifthereisnomarriage,loveisjustalonelyandwanderingghost，andithasnoplacetoburryitself.Loveisthepremiseofmarriageandmarriageisthesublimateoflove.Formostofpeople,loveissweetandromantic,butmarriageisrealistic.Accordingtostatistics,thedivorcerateinChinaiskeeprisingnowadays,theaffectionbetweenhusbandandwifeiswakingandgoingbadingradually,thefamilybrokenupandleftallpainsandbadinfluencestochildren,perhapsthisisasocialphenomenon,wecan’trealizeitorchangeit.

　　Infact,marriageissomethingthatyoufindsomeonewhowillneverleaveyoualoneandyouwillcompanyeachothertothroughtherestoflife,it’sthebesthappinessinthisworld.Idon’tknowwhysomepeoplejusttakemarriageasaburdenortreatitasajoke.Marriageisholyanditmattersthehappinessoftwopeople,youshouldmakesurethattheoneiswhomyouwantinthevastworldatthesecondyouarereadytobuildafamilywith.

　　Inmygrowingyears,Ihavelearnedfrommyparentsthattheirlovehadbeingwashedbytimeandcommonlifeallthetime,butithadnevervanished.Oncontrary,theycaremoreabouteachotherinhealthandmoodandinmanyotheraspects.Maybetheyhadcomplained,buttheyhadneversuspectedtheirmarriageandtheirownchoices,theyhadneversuspectedtheirlove.Theirmarriagehadbecomenotonlysomethingaboutmoralanddutybutalsoakindofdeepestrelationshipandlove.

　　SoIthinkthat

　　marriageneedstobeplowingandweeding,weshouldlearntounderstand,respect,andcherish.Ifyourmarriagewillnotdefeatedbythereality,thenyourlovewilllastforeverandwhenbothofyoubecomeoldhandinhand,youwillfindthatallthehardshipsandfrustrationsaresweetandromantic.

　　Thankyou!