用英语写一篇关于交又的文章.交友

Whenyoumeetsomeone,youdon'tknowwhetherthatpersonisgoingtobecomeagoodfriend,soyouhavetobeabitcarefulatfirst.

Friendshipislikeplantingaseedthatyou'vefound.Youarenotquitesurewhatisgoingtocomeupsoyouhavetowatchitcarefullyandnurture(lookafter)it.

Maybeitwon'tgrow,inspiteofyourbestefforts.

Maybeitwillonlygrowintoaweakandsicklyplant,oritcouldgrowintoahorribleweedandyouwouldhavetopullitup.

Sowhatcanyoudo?

1)Hangoutwhereothersthatyouwouldliketobefriendswithdoandjoininwiththeirplansunlessyoureallydisagree.

2)Ifyoudon'tagreewiththeirplanssaysoinapositiveway,Ilikethisbitbutmaybewecould…

3)Acceptpeopleastheyare.Youcanlikeotherpeopleevenifyoudon'tagreewitheverythingtheysayordo.

4)Youdon'thavetoknowaboutorhaveanopiniononeverything-infactitisoftenbetterifyoudon't.

5)Gettoknowpeoplewellbysharing'safe'thoughtswiththemfirst.Whatisasafethought?ItmightbesomethingaboutschoolorTVoryourfavouritefootyteam.Itisn'talwayssafetotellsomeoneyoudon'tknowverypersonalthingsaboutyou,likethingsyoumightbeworriedaboutorafraidof.

6)Beagoodlistenersothatotherscantellthatyouarereallyinterestedinwhattheyaresaying.

Ifyou'reluckythepersonyoumeetmaybecomearegularfriendoreven,afteralongtime,abestfriend.