急求1关于父母对我期望的英语作文！！

Well,differentfamilieshavedifferentexpectationsaboutcareer,money,childrenandtheirownfamily.

Weallchoosewhichexpectationsthatwewanttoliveuptoandhavetolivewiththoseconsequences.

Someparentsarequiterigidabouttheirexpectatins.

Inthesecases,childrenhavetochoosewhethertobeindependentandfollowtheirownpathoradheretotheirfamily’sexpectations.

Iknowthatinthewest,weareencouragedtofollowourownpathatanycost.

But,someontimes,itdoeshavedisasterousresults.

Everydecisionthatwemakehasgoodandbadconsequences.

Forme,Iwantmychildrentolivetotheirhighestpotential.

Thismaynotbecollege,butitisdoingtheirbestatafieldthattheyenjoy.

Eachoneofmychildrenhavebeengivencertaingifts……weallhave.

Iwantthemtousethosegiftsresponsibly.

Allthatsaid:

Yes,Iwouldbedisappointedifmyyoungestsonbecamearapper(spewinglanguagethatIfindinappropriate),mydaughterbecameastripper,(evenifshewasquitesuccessfulatdancingandgettingmentospendtheirmoney),myoldestsonbeingahitman(evenifhepossessedstrengthandwisdomaboutthekill)andifmymiddlesonbecameadrugdealer(evenifhewasthemostshiftyandquitethesalesman).

So,therearelimits.

Idoexpectmychildrentokeepaclosefamilybondwithme.

Idoexpectthemto“listen”tomyadvice.

Note:Ididnotsay“follow,”butatleastlistenandconsider.

Afterall,itisironicwhenchildrenthinkthattheparentsare“tooold,”togiveadvice,thenthesechildrenget“tooold”and……

Ithinkthatahealthydiscussionaboutexpectationsbetweenchildrenandparentsisagoodthing.

Acompromisemightbeinordertokeepthefamilybonds,yetrespectindividuality.